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Sep 13, 2025
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Fundamentals

When You’re Running Out Of Daylight 🌄

When Julie and I were training to climb up Mount Rainier in early 2018, one of the recommended hikes was McClellan Butte, east of Seattle. It’s a tough trail, introducing you to snowy rock falls and snow bridges - features that are fascinating (and a little unnerving).

One moment you’re in a shaded forest. The next, you step onto a clearing carved by an avalanche - a steep chute of snow and scattered boulders. Crossings like these can hide snow bridges - thin layers of snow covering holes or streams that collapse if you misstep. Navigating them, even in broad daylight, is a harrowing experience.

(Khalua helping navigate the best path across a snow bridge on McClellan Butte)

On one climb, we reached the upper slopes and realized that pushing for the summit would mean crossing snow bridges in the dark on the way down. Not worth the risk.

So, a few hundred feet shy of the top, we stopped for a meal on an overlook with a clear view of Mount Rainier (the goal we were training for -see cover photo for this post) rising in the distance. We realized the wiser move was to stop short, savor the view, and remember: the summit will still be there another day.

When The Daylight Fades

That hike taught us: the mountain tests more than endurance; it tests judgment. Sometimes you wait, adjust, and climb another day. Fundraising in 2025 the same. Big gifts are down, not because generosity has disappeared, but simply because the window isn’t open yet.

A recent Chronicle of Philanthropy article highlighted the factors:

  • Tax uncertainty. With new rules coming in 2026, many wealthy givers are waiting for clarity.
  • Economic caution. Tariffs and industry shifts are causing some to hold back.
  • Political tension. Some are delaying or giving more quietly.

Running out of daylight on McClellan Butte is like fundraising in a closed window: you can chase the summit, but you’ll pay for it on the descent.

The Mountain Will Still Be There

Here’s the key: turning back doesn’t mean the summit disappears. Often conditions shift in your favor later. The same is true now. The 2026 tax changes creating hesitation today are likely to spark urgency at this year's end as givers accelerate pledges or move up gifts to take advantage of the current rules before they expire.

We’ve seen this before:
In 2017, looming tax reforms triggered billions in accelerated giving right before the law changed. We could see the same surge in late 2025.

Making the Most of Base Camp

When climbers turn back short of a summit, they don’t waste the day. They regroup at base camp and use the time to rest, scout, and prepare for the next attempt. Fundraisers can take the same posture:

  1. Build trust. Use this pause to strengthen relationships rather than chase transactions.
  2. Offer clarity. Explain the coming tax shifts - position yourself as a guide, not a salesperson.
  3. Stay flexible. Be ready if givers accelerate gifts this year, and just as ready if they wait until 2026.

The Lesson of Turning Back

Julie and I could have forced it that day on McClellan Butte - touched the summit, snapped a picture, and started down. But descending in darkness over snow bridges would have been reckless. Stopping wasn’t failure; it was wisdom.

Fundraising works the same way. Where do you see daylight fading - and how might you adjust the pace before it gets dark?

The summit always remains. The key is to use this window well: deepen donor relationships, clarify the coming changes, and get yourself positioned. That way, when the conditions line up, you and your givers can move together with confidence.

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I look forward to hearing about your good work!

Blessings,

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